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How to Reinvigorate Your Marriage

by RankCastle Publishers, Sponsored Posts

Let's face it – for all its benefits, keeping the spark alive in your marriage can be harder than you initially think. Your spouse might be amazingly interesting in the first few years of living together, but over time, the mundane nature of everyday life can dull even the most passionate romances.

But that doesn't have to be the fate of your marriage. There are plenty of ways to keep the spark alive in your marriage, especially if you want to feel that "bubbly" energy you remember from the beginning of your relationship.


In many cases, marriage sparks start to dim or die out because you get distracted or too used to your daily routines. Therefore, the most straightforward way to keep the spark alive in your marriage is to simply do something new with your spouse.

Go to a place you've never been before. Try a new experience, like going on a blind-eating date night! Or take your spouse on a vacation to a destination neither of you have visited. New experiences let you both see new sides to each other and offer the opportunity for romantic encounters.


The five love languages are distinct ways in which people give and receive love. Everyone has at least one primary love language; this is how they prefer to receive and give affection, especially to their spouse! The five love languages are:

  • Quality time

  • Words of affirmation

  • Physical touch

  • Gift-giving

  • Acts of service

Depending on your personality and upbringing, you might prefer one or another love language, and so might your spouse. Learning love languages and using them to give your spouse the affection they need most can go a long way in keeping the spark alive in your marriage.

For example, if your spouse has a love language that focuses on gift-giving, why not surprise them with jewelry like lab-grown diamonds? Lab-grown diamonds are highly ethical since they don’t rely on exploitative mining practices. At the same time, lab-grown diamonds are physically and atomically identical to mined diamonds. Even better, lab-grown diamonds can oftentimes be purchased for less money than their mined alternatives.

This is just one example of how you can use your spouse’s love language to make them feel better and more appreciated. Of course, don’t forget to communicate your love language to your spouse so they can return the favor!


Of course, there's no better way to keep the spark alive in your marriage than to play a game that takes sexiness up a notch. "Sexy" games include card games and board games that require you to voice your deepest fantasies or make sexy jokes, like double entendres.

Regardless, sexy games are great for:

  • Bringing you and your spouse closer together by breaking down conversational barriers. For many, it’s easier to talk about sex-related topics in the context of jokes or games as opposed to serious environments.

  • Allowing you and your spouse to open up about your fantasies and deepest desires. Make no mistake, it can be tough to talk to your spouse about what you want in the bedroom, but a sexy game can help you express yourself in a safe environment.

Playing a sexy game is also a great way to spice things up on special days or nights of the year, like your anniversary or Valentine’s Day.

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Of course, you can also keep the spark alive in your marriage on a day-to-day level by going on regular date nights. Even if you have kids and busy work schedules, try to schedule one night per week where you both focus on each other. Regular date nights are perfect opportunities for romance and let you refocus your energy on what matters: your marriage!


Lastly, you can keep the spark alive in your marriage by limiting distractions in your daily routines. For example, if you are eating dinner with your spouse, put the phone down and talk about your day. Alternatively, if your spouse tells you about what they experienced at work, listen to them and offer some feedback if they need it; don’t let your mind wander or turn your attention to the football game.

Simply limiting distractions and refocusing your attention on your spouse is a great way to show them you care. In the end, there are lots of ways to keep the spark alive in your marriage, especially if you are willing to put forward the right effort. Marriage is a lot of work, but it can also be highly rewarding, particularly for two people who are willing to meet each other in the middle. Keep the spark alive and keep the romance bubbling in the background, and your marriage will thrive for decades to come!


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