How to Meet Serious Single Women Looking for Love

Why does it feel like everyone is either in love or claiming to be single by choice? Are we all truly happy living like this? And by this, I mean pretending that not having someone to come home to at night is a fulfilling life experience. Sure, we see the interviews and hear elderly women sharing that they wish they had remained single, never gave their lives up for a man, or went a different path in life—ultimately regretting their decision to marry.

But as humans, it's only natural for us to evolve. Modern love should not look or feel like the type of love our grandparents had to endure; it should be met with more understanding and empathy for both parties. Therapy should be at the forefront of almost all relationships because, while we are not responsible for how we were raised, we are responsible for how we choose to navigate life as adults. Single women are primarily looking for men who are emotionally intelligent, leaders, protectors, and providers. However, for many men, this concept can be difficult to grasp because a large majority simply cannot conceptualize doing anything beyond surviving.

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Many of us are living in survival mode, which means constantly operating in a state of stress, fear, and scarcity—leading to serious psychological and emotional consequences. When the brain perceives a constant threat—whether financial instability, emotional neglect, or work pressure—it prioritizes self-preservation over growth, connection, and personal fulfillment. This deeply impacts mental well-being and our ability to embrace our natural masculine and feminine energies.

We see the result of chronic stress in everyday life—women refusing to get pregnant and have children while men refuse to date and settle down. Many of us cannot fathom taking on the responsibility of anyone or anything outside of ourselves. So, is it that single women and men cannot find love? Or are we all so weighed down by heightened cortisol levels and emotional exhaustion that the thought of entering a relationship—where we cannot give 100% to our partner—feels impossible?

You’ve landed here because you’re wondering how to meet serious single women looking for love. But first, the real question is: Are you ready to meet these women? Have you asked yourself, Why am I looking for love? If your answers sound like, "I want a woman to come home to at night," "I want someone to cook and clean while I just go to work," or "I miss having a girlfriend—I’m tired of being alone," then you may not be truly ready for a partner. And that could be why you're struggling to find one.

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When those are the reasons you’re looking for love, it is a clear indication that you’re leaning more into your feminine energy—receptivity. Survival mode forces us to lean into opposite energies, making it harder to attract the person we believe we deserve. A man looking for a woman to receive from rather than pour into is a man who cannot lead and will likely struggle with trust and providing structure in a home. He will also attract a more masculine woman who is also in survival mode—dooming the union from the start. If you want to find the right partner, you first need to understand why having a partner is important to you.

What can you do for your partner that will make you feel good about yourself and your accomplishments? For example, a feminine woman looking for a relationship who is not in survival mode might say something like, “I want a man I can cook for and rub his feet after a long day,” or “I’m tired of being single. I want to have kids so I can take care of my man and our family.” These responses are very different from the ones mentioned earlier—this is a woman who wants to give and nurture. She is likely to lean into her creativity, sensuality, and emotional depth.

A man, on the other hand, should aim to enter a relationship so he can say things like, “I want a woman I can retire so she can stay home and raise our children,” “I want a wife I can make memories with and travel the world together,” or “I want a relationship where I can put a smile on my lady’s face.” Both men and women should operate from a place of selflessness, but their confidence in giving to one another comes from different energies, which helps sustain the relationship.

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Women want serious relationships, and so do many men—but are they truly ready? That is the question. If endlessly swiping on dating apps is not fulfilling, then you’re invited to try our matchmaking services. Unlike dating apps, She’s SINGLE Magazine is not interested in collecting your data to sell to advertisers. We are dedicated to pairing quality individuals so they can thrive in meaningful relationships.

The women in our Missies Community have invested time in learning, listening, and taking courses with our certified coaches and therapists to become better partners to themselves before entering a relationship. We want to match them with prospects like you—men who have done the hard work, are not operating in survival mode, and genuinely wish to pour into their partners. Maybe the love of your life is just a flight away—you never know. Give our services a try now to find out.

by Danielle Wright and Lance Bossman