Fashion Styles for Single Women to Attract a Soulmate

Beauty is subjective, we know, but every now and again we find ourselves asking, "How do I attract my soulmate?" A soulmate connection is often described as a deep, natural, and effortless bond between two people. It feels like you've known the person forever, even if you've only just met. Most people tend to associate soulmate connections with instant recognition, emotional depth, and even comfort in silence.

Some of us are naturally charismatic, which means we can be kind, generous, and establish an emotional bond with just about anyone, but this does not always mean it is a soulmate connection. Before you can attract a soulmate, you need to be clear on what you're looking for: platonic or romantic. There is a key difference in finding your platonic soulmate versus a romantic one.

Friendships, similar to the one found in The Artist among a group of friends, are when there's an effortless connection, and instead of friendships ending when or if a disagreement occurs, they simply take a moment, regroup, and then get back together to talk things through. There is no room for allowing things to fester and grow into resentment, therefore ending the friendship. Those details are quite small and often a sign that the friendship was never genuine or stable in the first place.

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Romantically speaking, soulmate connections come with intention. When you've made the decision to find your soulmate and speak it into existence, then yes, there are a few things you should consider doing to help bring your soulmate closer to you: The 'O' Method, Revamping Your Wardrobe, and Solo Dating.

Let's dive deeper into all of these: THE 'O' METHOD, simply put, is self-pleasure. It is one of the most powerful manifestation methods. All you have to do is visualize what you want to manifest while you orgasm. "A secret that most girls do not know is that our sexual energy is the most powerful, action-oriented energy in our body, and we can trust it to manifest our desires effortlessly. During those intimate moments when you're completely with yourself—right as you orgasm—visualize what you want.

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Remember, if you're manifesting someone new, you will first need to write down their characteristics, what they mean to you, how they interact with you, and then picture them holding their phone and passing you on the street on your way to work, stopping to speak to you and asking for your number. In your mind, say to yourself, 'He loves me, he's obsessed with me, he's going to treat me with the utmost love and respect.' In that heightened state, you're tapping into a powerful vibrational channel. After you are done, say something like, 'I'm so grateful for my person, and he will always think of me and cherish me.'" 

The thing about this, however, is that the universe will never send us anything we are not in a position to receive. So even though you may do this manifestation technique, you should also look into your fashion choices. Believe it or not, your fashion choices will determine the type of man that approaches you. I don't make the rules, and wearing polyester is always noticeable. We believe as women that it's easy for us to get away with wearing cheap clothing as long as our hair, nails, and toes are done and our body is in shape. But there is more to it than that. Certain pieces are obviously cheap, and most men will take notice—especially a man with high values and morals.

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He wants to know that you're not just limiting yourself to shopping at Temu, Fashion Nova, and Shein. He wants to know that you are privy to other places such as Lueq, Century 21, and Express. Your style is going to be that one deciding factor between whether or not a man approaches you for a date night or a hookup. And a lustful man is never a soulmate. Women's clothing from David Lawrence is also good to consider when your interest in fashion starts to develop and you're seeking more long-term, quality pieces versus fast fashion. Types of fabrics to wear: Linen, Rayon, and Cotton.

SOFT AND FEMININE CHIC – This one is my favorite and the look I'm always trying to go for. Think Kylie Jenner circa 2023–present (since hooking up with Timothée Chalamet). This look consists of flowy midi dresses in colors such as blush, ivory, and soft florals. Dainty jewelry—so nothing too bulky or heavy—and small rings, usually stacked.

Don't overdo it on the makeup with this look; keep it light, refreshed, and nothing like your Alabama Barker. She's a beautiful girl, but eventually, she's going to soften up her look and step into her feminine chic era. But you'll notice that the type of men she attracts now are not the kind of men we can envision for her long-term. We can also take someone like Sofia Richie, post-Scott Disick era, and how much she's toned down to really embody that soft and feminine chic look.

CONFIDENT MINIMALIST – When I think of this fashion style, I immediately think of women like Tracee Ellis Ross, Lisa K. Stephenson, Issa Rae, Kelly Rowland, Angelina Jolie, and even Cynthia Erivo. These women have mastered the ability to take a monochromatic look—which can otherwise be deemed boring to some—and turn it into a classic ensemble that not only exudes confidence, but tells men that they are respectable and typically business-oriented. This type of fashion style is perfect for women who are emotionally mature and have a secure attachment style.

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Their lives are not centered around men or their opinions of them. They move with grace and would rather be on a vacation with a lovely martini than chasing a man around town and arguing with ten other women about his whereabouts. All in all, this fashion style is not for the faint of heart because while you may see this look and think, "This is giving auntie," a man will see this look and think, "I need to make her my wife." As far as pieces, think crème blazers, black trousers, silk camisoles, structured handbags, and gold or silver jewelry. And don't forget the sunglasses.

BOHO GODDESS – This look is centered around earth tones, fringe jackets, and wide-legged pants. Think Dolly Parton or even Ms. Tina Knowles. Layered necklaces also accompany this look, along with natural textures like linen, suede, and woven bags. This look channels effortless chic and will help you attract a soulmate who is down to earth, relaxed, and in some cases a pot smoker—but hey, maybe they'll be heavily into van life or traveling for work.

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When you choose this look, you're signaling to the world that you're a free thinker and you value your freedom over all else. These types of women often make for great spouses and are usually Type B personalities, which means you'll likely attract a Type B personality spouse or even a Type A spouse depending on your environment.

Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but what's most important is that you express to the world who you are through the clothes you wear. First impressions are always what we see on your person, not how you speak. So make the best first impression to attract the person you want. And as far as the "O" method, use it sparingly—because it works, trust me!

For more information on solo dating, check out this next article.

by Samara Morris