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Changing the Landscape of Relationships: Phubbing Emerges as Leading Divorce Trend in 2024

Shockingly, 17% of women will also interrupt intimacy to check their phone, by Danielle Wright

A dire warning has been issued to couples, shedding light on a distressing reality where millions of marriages hang in the balance due to a disconcerting preference for smartphone companionship over the warmth of a partner. The ominous trend, aptly termed "phubbing," is anticipated to become the defining divorce trend of 2024, as projected by phone experts at SellCell.


The alarming revelation that 54% of individuals in relationships unabashedly prioritize the company of their smartphone sets the stage for a disconcerting trend that not only escalates conflicts within relationships but also inflicts a toll on intimacy.

Immersive research spearheaded by experts reveals a startling fact: nearly three-quarters (71%) of individuals allocate more time to their phone than their romantic partner. Furthermore, 17% of women demonstrate a tendency to disrupt intimate moments for the sake of glancing at their screens.


This surge in phone addiction poses an escalating concern in the UK, where over half of the population concedes their attachment to their phones. Adding to the dilemma is the UK's existing divorce rate, already a notable 42%, with the rise of phubbing introducing fresh apprehensions about the further erosion of fragile relationships.


The term "phubbing," encapsulating the act of forsaking human interaction in favor of digital devices, has reached a zenith in tandem with the surge in social media consumption and the ubiquity of digital experiences. The disconcerting statistic that 46% of individuals dedicate a significant portion—5 to 6 hours—of their day to their phones serves as a stark reminder that quality time for nurturing relationships is increasingly scarce.

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Sarah McConomy astutely observes that relationships in today's digital milieu stand threatened as people increasingly gravitate toward their phones for interaction. The pronounced preference for mobile phone companionship over human connection raises concerns, as McConomy emphasizes the cornerstone of flourishing relationships—communication, attentive listening, and emotional bonding—are compromised in a scenario marked by perpetual preoccupation with mobile devices.


In the broader context, the proliferation of mobile phones is evident, as reflected in the surge from 740 million subscriptions in 2000 to an astounding 8.6 billion by 2021. The exponential growth in digital communication paints a picture of an evolving landscape where people increasingly seek solace in digital interactions, even when physically in proximity.


The shadow cast by this pervasive trend extends to the domain of couples' interactions, where the once cherished moments of shared companionship are eclipsed by the pull of digital devices. A startling 78% of women and 64% of men concede spending more time with their phones than their partners. McConomy underscores the urgency for individuals grappling with relationship discord to evaluate the role of technology in their strife.



Acknowledging the pivotal role of mobile phones in contemporary communication, she advocates for the intentional allocation of time for in-person connections that surpass the superficiality of text messages and phone calls.


In light of the unsettling reality that over three-quarters of women and half of men express a preference for their phones over their partners, the ominous specter of plummeting marriage rates within tech-immersed generations looms large. McConomy adds a touch of humor, suggesting that perhaps gifting the latest iPhone for Christmas might not be the ideal solution for those attempting to mend relationships fractured by digital detachment.

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