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How To Know If A Gemini Man Likes You

by Danielle Wright

Gemini men are hands down some of the sweetest men I’ve ever dated…no, seriously. I know Gemini seems to get a bad rep, but for the most part, they’re outspoken, smart, and best of all, generous. While it’s important to note that we should never solely rely on someone’s zodiac to tell us about their personality, it can in some instances help.

I think one of the most common undesirable traits of Gemini men and women is that they’re very nosy. But this is usually because they are an open book and are usually non-judgmental. Most Geminis are filled with a plethora of information whereas knowing your problems will encourage them to provide you a solution.

However, to a Scorpio, Cancer, Pisces, and Virgo this trait is repulsive. Known for being the most secretive signs of the zodiac it’s no wonder, celebs like Keke Palmer cannot stand the adaptable sign of Gemini. But while this may seem innocent enough it can be problematic if you’re dealing with an insecure Gemini. Their need-to-know personality can leave you stifled and feeling like you have to get away to save yourself from this mental anguish. But for most Gemini men, they can see this as a challenge and they’re always up for that.

Due to their intellectual nature, one of the first and clearest signs that a Gemini man likes you is that he asks you lots of questions! This bodes well for Leo sun because they like it when things are centered around them, especially conversations. Most Gemini men do not have a problem taking a backseat to your shining light as long as he’s there to share the spotlight with you. So, he’ll ask you many questions which tie into their nosy trait. This can lead to long, entertaining conversations for hours on end. The Gemini man (no pun intended lol) zeroes in on you to engage in conversation whenever the two of you are together.

Gemini men are not always emotional and some do not like to overshare, before divulging their secrets they’ll get to know you on a deeper level. This can feel intimidating or raise concern for you when you start to feel like you’re in an interrogation room versus on a date. But this is his way of making sure that it makes sense to speak to you about the things most important to him—his life struggles, emotions, etc. One thing about these men, they are not prideful or boastful. Most of them are quite humble, so their ability to share comes from a place of vulnerability and trust. If he’s sharing with you this is a sign that he likes you.

Another sign he likes you is quality time. Yep, your Gemini man is needy and likes to spend time with his lady. This goes well with Leo sun. Both signs enjoy quality time with their person of interest which is why they tend to get along so well and are proven to be very compatible in love and life. There’s no mountain too high for the Gemini man, he is very good at adapting to his surroundings, so even if you’re more on the introverted side, he will have no problem meeting you where you are with no complaints. But, on the flipside, he can be just as extroverted if the relationship calls for it.

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For the average couple, according to Ryan Hetrick, “Dating an extrovert can be a challenge if you’re an introvert. Extroverts have strong personalities, and this often means that they need to be the center of attention for them to feel energized and comfortable. As an introvert, it can sometimes be difficult to navigate conversations with someone who is so outgoing.”

Luckily, Gemini men want to see their partner happy. It brings them joy to see you smiling and doing what you love and seeing how comfortable you are. All you have to do is express this to them because they’re very big on communication as well. Don’t worry about being too outgoing or shy for your Gemini man, if he likes you that is.


Now, of all the signs there is a lesson to be learned when it comes to the communication styles of a Gemini man. He can at times overpower conversations and this can lead someone to feel unheard or annoyed. But, this comes from feeling intimidated or insecure. If any man does this you should reconsider the relationship because they are not interested in having a conversation, they want to win the conversation. Winning a conversation can feel like a boost to the male ego—Sagittarius men are notorious for this, referring to it as a healthy debate because they already think you’re too stupid to know the difference.

Another thing to watch out for once your Gemini man does grow comfortable enough with you are tall tales—but this is an indication that he likes you. Silence makes him uncomfortable so to keep the conversation going and to keep you around, he’ll tell some white lies to pique your interest. He may think these white lies are harmless, but if unchecked can harm your relationship. Reassure him that it’s okay and you don’t have to constantly be engaged in conversation for him to feel secure. You like him just as much as he likes you.

If ever you’re finding it hard to hold a conversation with a Gemini man, he maybe disinterested, depressed, or cheating. Just know that no matter the sign, there are always universal signs that someone likes you or not. Don’t get too wrapped up in using astrology as your guide.


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